You can deny him, he thought, watching his father across the table. You can hate him, love him, pity him, never speak to or look at him in the eye again, never deign even to be in his crabbed and bitter presence, but you're still stuck with the son of a bitch. One way or another he'll always be your daddy, not even all-powerful death was going to change that. Ben Fountain
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This quote expresses the truth that no matter what you do, no matter how much you try to avoid him, you will always be related to him. This reminds us that we are never truly free of our pasts. The way we were raised and the things we learned as children always come back to haunt us later in life. We can deny, hate or love our parents, but if we are still related to them than there is no escape.

Source: Billy Lynns Long Halftime Walk

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